I understand your last dude/lady wronged you. I understand stand things didn’t work out for whatever reason. I understand that he/she wasn’t everything he promised he/she would be when y’all first started talking. That’s life. Some people lie, some people don’t. Unfortunately for you, you’ve had a steady stream of liars, cheaters, deceivers, lazies, and all around unsavory individuals…BUT you can NOT pin the crimes of the ex on the next (I won’t get into who’s fault that is. It could be yours because you seek the same type of individual out every time. It could be theirs for just being liars,etc. It could just be that you’re just a bad judge of character). Not only is it not fair to the person that is trying to be your mate/partner in crimes but you are also cheating yourself. You’re too busy worrying about what a person MIGHT be doing to break your trust that you’re not paying attention to what they’re doing to EARN it. There are individuals that are SINCERELY interested in getting to know you as a person walking the face of the earth. It just so happens that after that person gets to know you and finds you even more interesting/attractive than they initially did…they want to fuck you into a coma. Lean widdit, rock widdit. Be happy someone might actually find you interesting in a non physical way.